Friday, March 14, 2008
Your Relationship with your Parents Due Tue., Mar. 26, 2008
Is your relationship the same with your mom and with your dad? Describe how it is the same or different. If one parent says no to you, do you go to the other parent? This is called playing one against the other. Who is the disciplinarian in the family? (punishes, sets rules, etc.) Who can communicate the best with you or can use sign language?
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I have two family because my dad and my mom was broke up. I was two year old. My mom and dad really big different their life and behavior because my dad and mom was divdion.
My mom is good sign and funny because she is more good sign than my dad because I am stay with my mom's house that more long time for during school weeks But my dad really want see to me because I alway see my dad for just weekend and if no school. I can visit there. I alway go to my dad's house for every weekend. My dad not care about I want to ride my Dirt Bike at anytime or more far than 25 miles. But my mom said she can not care about I can ride my other dirt bike but my step-dad is decide but not my mom. I was little mad because my real mom have can be decide. When I will be 18. I will take my other Dirt Bike.My dad's house really okay and big coutry because my dad pay to me for $4,200.00. But my mom take it because support to me and improve my goal... But my parent still love me!
I live with my mom since i born. My dad was marrying other woman when i was born. He never out with me until 13 years old but he did visiting me for short like he gave me for my birthday and christmas that's all. I was raise with my mom while she can't coummuncation. I don't want to tell you about my mom's personal. Anyway, She is good to me and she had many misunderstand. I always beat-up her if she speak me off about people and things. Few time, She won't let me to go friend's house or anywhere. But most time, she lets me to go. I was little girl, and my mom won't lets me to go anywhere most time but only my area, she lets me to go. I was sleep-over my dad's house. His house is boring to me. We can't communcation together but few time, we talked for few min. My older brother and older sister told me that they were sleepover my dad's house. He won't let them to out. He is more disciplinarian, act jerk and sometime bad joke. Thanks god, I'm not live with my dad since i born. My mom isn't really disciplinarian in me. Only, she controls safe to do.
Brett is lucky because his father saved money for his future. My mom and my dad aren't. My mom isn't enough money to save for my future and my dad isn't support me but only pay me for my christmas and my birthday until 18 years old. I still love my dad but not really love him. Because he didn't show me to his show love. I was about 14 years old, he said " i love you" for once. My mom always loves me so much and misses me every minutes. I really love my mom so much.
Well I will talking it about right now! Sometime I have a bad/good relationship with my parents! But I have some problem with my parent because they're divorced too! I have a good/bad Relationship with Stepfather. Sometime Stepfather and me wasnt talking each other sometime but now we are fine because he is my good father. And my real father not really because he have a problem with coummuncation with me because he too lazy to use the sign language with me! Right now after 4 years he is forget to use the sign language! Well Stepfather alway be nice and kidding me but we sometime talk each other because sometime he's busy with his wife like talking too long. I alway chatting with my mom but stepfather too! Well i dont want to tell you about my private relationship with parent ok? I like to talking about it but my feeling dont want to do.But next time if I feeling like to talking about it. Then i will do it!
No, never my family was broke up. Why only stay all time my family was not broke up but my mom is good same slow sign but same english and same asl than stepdad is not good very slow sign and angry... that only all time boring... -.-
This happened to my parents that I’m try to be pretend they would be argue that I’m want money to pay toys when I’m younger kids. I try to tell to my dad that I need money to pay new toys but he said no. Then I talk to my mom but she said yes then she gave money to me but next day they are argue because my dad said no but she said yes. Its would be different what they said to me. ITS CALLED PLAYING ONE AGAINST THE OTHER. I wish to again to my parents but I’m older.
Actually Yes, Since I m 8 year old, My parents very fexbile, They dont care what I going somewhere, but they must know where I am.. I just same with relationship with my parents.. But One problem, since this years, My mom had new boyfriend Rob, She is bigg changed lots for herself. She wont let me out with my friend in somewhere. Because my mom worried about me lots my area is bad, that why, Rob make her rule for me... by the way, i dont care about that she give me some rules, mostly i dont listen. Ha
My mom was dirvoce with my dad.
My mom told me that my dad not like deaf people because of me. He still not support of me. He was cheat on my mom because he look for women. My mom really very cherish of me. She is very support of me a lot. She like to more learn america sign language but she is still use english sign langauge home. I still understand what she did say to me. I can take patient to my family for communcate to me. My mom have very strict rule in my home because she not want me for bad infuence habit, she want me I have good
infuence habit. I should thank her for someday. I still love my mom!
Now my mom married-newbie with step dad.
My relationship with parents are great, and we get along really good, they are taking care of me lot, and they are forcing me to learn any good things and not to do bad things, since i was 1 birth so they taught me lot. i am appreciated that lot to them ... i am so pround of my relationship to them so and i am so close with them and they always take me to anywhere wherever we want to go and they will do anything for us and i am so happy that i have a great parents i noticed that some kids doesnt i feel so bad for them it makes me feel like lip aren't open at all. they would never prevaricated to me or my siblings, so they just always tell us truth and helping us. all of them said.... BE CAREFUL! that shown us they really cares of us.
Honestly, my parent are divorced. My mom remarried with my step dad. My relationship is pretty great with whole family. Since I was little kid, I have that really good relationship with my dad. My bad relationship with my mom, We finally get along one month ago. One girl I was dating, I asked mom for that girl sleep over my house, first thing she said, NO! I was like come on, and start to arguing with her. Finally she will let girl sleep over if I cleaning my room. I said sure! After that, we got along. If it wasn't for girl I been dating, we wouldn't get along
Actually, I didn't make a point. My parents are divorced, right? Mostly of time, they say yes now. So I don't have to worrying about against.
Hmm..., Most my mommy work for 7 kids. My mommy adopt me when I was 4 years old. I look at Past. She care me long time for 12 years. She is such as my best mother ever that I have. Sometime, Mymother and I fight about Stuff as Money, Food, Clothes, etc... But now, Not Much. I am more quietly, humble, calmly boy in home. I more love my mother because she is great, best mother that I ever have in my life.
well, i have many about my parents have to do something to me like rules since i was 9, i think. Most both of my parent and i am really closed them when i was born. I love my parents so much. But they are do too much for me like i am still kid. Sometimes they not understand me. My parents tried for learn sign well. They are support me for my school and sometime in my future, too. They not really punishes because i am older enough. They are still rules in my house and some new rules. Sometimes, i was not happy with them for some a reasons. Most time, i rather with my mother because she is so sweet and nice. She always let me whatever i want buy or what i need it. Sometime not because depend on her mood or with my father.
Eh, other personal question? Not what I had excepted…
I have no complained against with my parents, really. I truly love my parents. They are fine parents. No abusive, oppressive or careless. They care about their children, my brothers.
If something that I really wanted and my parents said no. I would not go to other parents. It is stupid to do that. If my parents said no to me when I wanted something. I accepted, because my parents know better than I do. If I think my parents were wrong to say no to me. I can discuss with them. Open discuss is better way to solve problem. Eh?
Both of my parents are disciplinarian of our family. My dad and mom give each other the equal responsible. My dad goes away for work and I do something bad. My mom gives me punishment, of course. My mom goes shopping and I do something bad, my dad give m a punishment, of course. It was not like, my dad goes away for work and I do something wrong. Then my mom has to wait for my dad got back from wrong and give me punishment, pfftt.
My parents are deaf, I have no problem with comminute with them.
Good Night.
-AJR
I have good relationship with my mom because she very kind to me and I love her alot and she say she doesnt care she said I can do what ever I want because I am older enough I really dont have good relationship with my stepdad because I dont talk to him anyway he waste his life.
I really dont want to talk about my relationship
I dont have no comment about this
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i only have a dad and sister. If my dad said no, i listen to him no matter what. He is my father and i listen. We all alway dicuss and slove the problems. It is easy for us. My dad never punish us, just dicuss. he is great father. i have a great family ( dad and sister) I love them to death!
we are deaf and easy to communciate with each other. There is no problem. we are most closest to each other. they are best!
Oh well, when i was 13 or 14 years old. When i went to after school everyday then im boring at home and what i doing nothing. So i will ask my parents and i want to with friends for fun outside around in the city. Them i ask to my stepdad then i said can i go with my friends walk around from area my home? He said no not go with friends. Then well i ask to my mom then i said can i go with friend for outside for fun? She said yes you can go to outside. Then i was happy went to outside more fun then Later im back to my home then my stepdady said why you go outside what for? and i said yes i went to outside no matter then he look like mad at me. i said my mom said yes let me go for fun outside. Stepdad talk with my mom and i think stepdad against to my mom
I was born with 2 deaf parents and younger deaf brother.
My relationship with my parents aren't the same. When I was a little girl, I was known as "Daddy's Girl" - I couldn't imagine myself without my father - didn't have a relationship with my mother at that time. Until later, I got older my mother admitted me the truth about what my father have done to her (he has cheated on her)from there, I was sick to my stomach and couldn't really believe the fact that my father would hurt my mother like that. Myself, I do not like cheaters - they piss me off inside, I would go into tantrum when I hear someone mentioning their love 1 cheated on them. It hurts when that happens, I've seen it with all of my eyes - so I've lost my bond with my father, me and my mother became so, so close! Me and my mom would go out everyday, do things together 24/7 when I come home from school.
When I want to ask mom for something, her answer is always NO! When that happens, I turn to my father and his answer is always YES! But being punished and having rules by privledges was made from my mother. She's responsible to set up how I'm going to be punished and such.
I haven't seen my family for a year now, and I really would love to see them again. My mother is the person whom I miss the most out of life, it definitely would be amazing to see her again.
I grew up with a Deaf & Single mom!!
My dad was never part of my life, he couldn't accept that he had one biracical daughter, he believe that my skin isn't the same as other of my sisters, but that doesn't matter because I prefer to have 1 parent. (I know the game)
Why did I say I rather one parent. Most single parent tend to be flexible with kids, for my mom, most of time she would say YES sometimes she would say NO if its a late night activity, but I always make her say YES at the end, sometimes i do some bribe with my mom " If you let me go out, I'll wash all the clothes for you tomorrow" but one thing I'm glad is that me and my mom communicate 100% in ASL!!!
(When I was younger, I had rules, but once I got to the teenager level, mom start to become flexible knowing that I'm older enough know what to do on my own with my own judgement)
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