Has someone ever done something to make you angry then you held a grudge against that person? Has someone held a grudge against you? Does holding a grudge against someone solve the problem or issue? Did you do anything to solve the problem?
Well... Just,my parent want talk something to me and my middle brother. My middle brother and I didn't know why my parent want talk to me? My mom and step-dad told we have plan for go to Fla. I said what we will go to Fla? My mom told NO! I said Why? My mom and my young brother only can go to Fla. I said So! I said when. My mom said Last Tuesday to Tuesday. I said WHY! My mom said my young brother never ride plane and never go to Fla, before. I feeling more pissed! Then, I away from my parent's bedroom because I didn't like my young brother and my mom go to there that not fair and no right! Also, my mom said not enough money. I said So because my dad told me, he paid $4,200.00 per one year for me but my mom get it. I told her, why you did take my dad for go to court. I said my real father. I not want my mom take my dad's money as support for me. But Why I not go to Fla? That very dumb and pissed! I not talk to my mom about that. :( Now, my mom and young brother go to Fla...
well, i'm not really piss off at people and grudge against people.
I was going to Tucson, Arizona for JR.NAD. I know the girl's from RISD. We met basketball's esdaa and game basketball. Also, i know the boy's from PSD. I talked with the guy like sometime but most time i talked with new jr.nad's students. The girl was jealous over me while i don't know. I try to think saying something to her because I sat with her in morning for breakfast but she was acting werid like little mean to me or 2 face. Then she didn't want to talk with me. Because she really like the guy that he talked with me and she thought, he tries to get me but we know together since camp when were 11 or 12 years old. She never talk me to back. I was feeling little angry at her because she told to her friends about me but i can ingore her. 2 weeks ago, i went to esdaa in RISD for basketball. I saw her again. She keeps talk to my friend's from sssd about me. My friend told her "well, not my problem. She is my best friend" The girl should be stop. But i can control anyway.
Well, I not didn't know, maybe only time tell my stepdad name is Dave Erickson-Cruz many time said. "NO!" But Dave's hand sign "NO!" closed on my face and then he was very angry, he will soon hit my face! Not now, I fine nothing black on my eyes... just not hurt ok. My mom is very nice but, just calm she said. "No..." Not closed on my face, just fine but, only my stepdad said. "Ok, fine." To my sister!!! I said. "What! Not fair!!! Why, only Sam you said. "Ok, fine." Why!" Then Dave said. "Sorry, only for young but, you older now." Now he turn-back but, he not see me, I'm very angry, I said. "You are idiot f***!!!"
Well it making me mad and still mad for almost one month was my dad!Because when my family and my dad went to the party. So When dad start mean to me and made me so angry but I didnt blow it out. Just holding inside. It can control myself!So when he keep making me get mad then i was messing up with Dad to make him getting mad.After the party, I was madding and against him for rest of life but it dont! But he still against me now. I was trying do anything to solve the problem with dad but Dad refused it! Well for 4 years we never solve it again sorry.Still miss him =-( I wish that he could forgive me and I can forgive him too! Just let it go!
Well, I don’t want to tell everyone that I’m not happy about my dad because I want with my friends go to movies but my dad said no. Many year my dad wont want me with my friends plus out anywhere but my dad want me go to beach or anywhere for our family vacations. Last year I’m 18 year old and I can do anything that I want to out anywhere with my friends and etc. I have to accepted what my dad said to me. My mom said yes I want to anywhere I can go to store or different that I want to myself.
I never im pissed off or angry at people. I cant do that. so IF when person are angry at me and problem with me. i will say stop problem with me. then person wont to slove problem with me. I hate that one. then fine im away to who angry person to me. I will back off to person. Later next month if i try said hi to person then they said wont talk with me and not even see around again. Then i will try slove promblem with person. Then it over promblem then person said will sorry to me and i said it okay alright then good friend =)
Oh well, now i remember that, that time, we were young kids. That one girl student from Parkway Ele, name is Jennifer P. She trying make me angery because she know that, i was crush on one boy name is Luke Jones.. And She told luke about i was crush on him somehow, i saw that Jen kissed him make me grudges. Then next day, Jen make herself bully on me, and teast me, insult me lots... when we going to lunch and Jen told all students dont sit with Julisa. "She is werid." that explian, make me angery i trying to nice for sit with them but they dont want sit with me. then we went to outside then some how i did fight with that girl Jen, that why i got suspion..
Today I mad at uncle because he break my promise. Because he suppose to show up at my home for easter day dinner time. He not show up at my home and I give him for promise, he will come to my home; he not. My mom told me that he fight talk with uncle fred made not come to my home. So I feel little upset, little feel hurt, and mad. I call on VP and I told him I am very dippointed to him. He got realize. I always come to his house and he come for somtimes to my home. Now I will be fine..
Anyone doesnt want to make me angry cuz i am going to be temper real bad, so i am not doing anything when i get mad, cuz i get it knowing everyday because many people gets mad and mad more often for stupid reasons, so they arent make me angry, they are just friendly with me and stuff so i dont care what they want to do if they are mad at all. and ive been always in good mood and always will be. so angry is not worth to me at all .... when they are trying to make me mad, i am just tell them to blow it off and laugh my a off. that is all what i will do.
I have held grudge against my best friend. When we were kids, we were good friend. He was good kid who alway love to playing. Now, I'm looking at him who is making his life miskate. He will going to Junvelle Dentention. He have drug problem who hang out with bad kids. He always give me hard time being a deaf. Actually, I alway start to fight with him. We start to having problem that often. Only solve is stay away from him. Bless his life.
Sorry I not even know Grudge mean? But I read all blog and that mean piss off on other people. Oops. I use bad word. Sorry I mean angry. Really, I not angry on other people who have fun day as amusement park, go to other state. I have plenty time to do fun day as Gallaudet University, Hershey Park, Romeo and Juliet play, Flield Day, and Philadephia for competion and Florida with my cousin and cousin's mother. I not jealously person.
Some my friends do this to me before. i am not explain this. that is not your busness. And long story, too if i get problem and i will tell to teacher or my friends. Or i do it myself try to solve the problem.
So, I can use other concept. One day, I was frustrated with this thing. It made me angry and it made me damaged it. I was so angry that time, because it gave me hard time. It won’t cooperate with me. It just continues without me. It made me feel so crazy and frustrated. Everyday, I went to sleep and tried to think positive that it will be good in next day. But it never happens. Everyday, it won’t cooperate with me. Finally I give up and throw it away. Then I went to store and buy new computer. Finally, it work with me all way. It cooperated with me.
well, if someone have problem with me, i just ingore that person and walk away. its not a point to continue. Walk away is best thing to do. Dont have to dwell about it.
If i have problem with that person, i would tell it straight out and walk away.
In past, I alway hold grudges against someone, even my ex girlfriend during dating. Now I'm beginner to acting like Bearsboy. If I see any problem, I just back off and not fit in any drama. I want to be peace and if someone have grudge against me, then I just let someone go. I will just lalalalala.
Does I have grudge inside me, well, I can not thought of one thing grudge I have. But IF someone have grudge against me. I would like to faced that person and solve problem. If still have grudge against me. I let it go and leave that person alone and don't bother with that person.
I am not that sensitive to have grudge against someone. I just let it go. It do not worth to keep grudge. Wasted your time.
*Stupid Word Verification, it takes me 15 minutes to made it right.*
Hmm... Well, I holding grudge againist my mother because she adopt me for whar? I like my birth- mother. She say No, your birth- mother is bad person. I say Proof me. She proof me that she is good person than my birth mother. Now I act as Bearsboy in home because I realized that my mother love me and care about me. I love her more than my birth mother. I not mean to hurt my birth mother because she is more drugs, Lied, find another way to out of me. My mother told me that my birth mother dont care about me and my half sister told me that she saw she throw me and my mother say oh that true. I say Oh. Crap Why? She say that not important and important that I love u and care u. U always be my Baby Tiger. Now I not holding againist my mother. She is best mother that I ever had.
I have to take again on this. Thanks explain to me what grudges are. Last year I had a problem with my friends at other school. We are arguing for few weeks because we have a reason why we are a problem our private. Few weeks later I meet my friends again then we don’t to talk about that but we are sorry that what happened to our argue. Now no more those are a problem.
One time I was try to follow my friend ask me let break other people house and steal jelewy and I told him is not good idea and he tell me why? because he can get trouble and he said he was wrong and he will never be stupid like this is so stupid when he say that. i would never made mistake I made right choice that all i have to because i dont want to go to jail up 20 years.
Oh yes! I've have that many, many times. And trust me, it's a feeling of pains that isnt funny.
I got my laptop stolen by someone who I really know, someone I was literally close with. I had no idea that person stole it, but he had the guts to walk in the police station with me accusing other fellas stealing my laptop when he was the one who done it all the way. Also, my iPod got stolen - half of my life was taken away, I will definitely hold that grudge agasint that boyy for good.
Why should I solve problem with him when my laptop is given away for $200 and my iPod was sold for only $30?! Nah, he took my life away, he can wait til karma comes in his life ASAP (hopefully!)
WOW! this is a good question!--Yes I've holding the Grudges many times, Most of the time its about my friends, sometimes its about my family, for my friends, they don't realize that I'm friends with that person, and they go ahead say some things about me or hates my guts, and that friend tells me about it and i keep it in my mind about that person, sometimes I would blunt, sometimes that situation is stupid but I find it immature of that person to do but in a way I change my thoughts about that person, and sometimes I would treat them differently that usually but not serious, maybe stop chilling with them for a while, or just keep it cool, acting different that's what I do.
For family, I tend to hold it back, sometimes I can't blunt it to my family because they're senstive, but I notice when my family makes me hold my grudges I let it build and build until one day it'll explode there I go blow up and I tend to bring everything up the total timne that they build my grudge, sometimes they realize how much it made me hold back, how much it hurted, then they change, but most of the time i keep it back and move on, yes it does bother me but i just know i got to go with the flow!
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Well... Just,my parent want talk something to me and my middle brother. My middle brother and I didn't know why my parent want talk to me? My mom and step-dad told we have plan for go to Fla. I said what we will go to Fla? My mom told NO! I said Why? My mom and my young brother only can go to Fla. I said So! I said when. My mom said Last Tuesday to Tuesday. I said WHY! My mom said my young brother never ride plane and never go to Fla, before. I feeling more pissed! Then, I away from my parent's bedroom because I didn't like my young brother and my mom go to there that not fair and no right! Also, my mom said not enough money. I said So because my dad told me, he paid $4,200.00 per one year for me but my mom get it. I told her, why you did take my dad for go to court. I said my real father. I not want my mom take my dad's money as support for me. But Why I not go to Fla? That very dumb and pissed! I not talk to my mom about that. :(
Now, my mom and young brother go to Fla...
well, i'm not really piss off at people and grudge against people.
I was going to Tucson, Arizona for JR.NAD. I know the girl's from RISD. We met basketball's esdaa and game basketball. Also, i know the boy's from PSD. I talked with the guy like sometime but most time i talked with new jr.nad's students. The girl was jealous over me while i don't know. I try to think saying something to her because I sat with her in morning for breakfast but she was acting werid like little mean to me or 2 face. Then she didn't want to talk with me. Because she really like the guy that he talked with me and she thought, he tries to get me but we know together since camp when were 11 or 12 years old. She never talk me to back. I was feeling little angry at her because she told to her friends about me but i can ingore her. 2 weeks ago, i went to esdaa in RISD for basketball. I saw her again. She keeps talk to my friend's from sssd about me. My friend told her "well, not my problem. She is my best friend" The girl should be stop. But i can control anyway.
Well, I not didn't know, maybe only time tell my stepdad name is Dave Erickson-Cruz many time said. "NO!" But Dave's hand sign "NO!" closed on my face and then he was very angry, he will soon hit my face! Not now, I fine nothing black on my eyes... just not hurt ok.
My mom is very nice but, just calm she said. "No..." Not closed on my face, just fine but, only my stepdad said. "Ok, fine." To my sister!!!
I said. "What! Not fair!!! Why, only Sam you said. "Ok, fine." Why!" Then Dave said. "Sorry, only for young but, you older now." Now he turn-back but, he not see me, I'm very angry, I said. "You are idiot f***!!!"
Well it making me mad and still mad for almost one month was my dad!Because when my family and my dad went to the party. So When dad start mean to me and made me so angry but I didnt blow it out. Just holding inside. It can control myself!So when he keep making me get mad then i was messing up with Dad to make him getting mad.After the party, I was madding and against him for rest of life but it dont! But he still against me now. I was trying do anything to solve the problem with dad but Dad refused it! Well for 4 years we never solve it again sorry.Still miss him =-( I wish that he could forgive me and I can forgive him too! Just let it go!
Well, I don’t want to tell everyone that I’m not happy about my dad because I want with my friends go to movies but my dad said no. Many year my dad wont want me with my friends plus out anywhere but my dad want me go to beach or anywhere for our family vacations. Last year I’m 18 year old and I can do anything that I want to out anywhere with my friends and etc. I have to accepted what my dad said to me. My mom said yes I want to anywhere I can go to store or different that I want to myself.
I never im pissed off or angry at people. I cant do that. so IF when person are angry at me and problem with me. i will say stop problem with me. then person wont to slove problem with me. I hate that one. then fine im away to who angry person to me. I will back off to person. Later next month if i try said hi to person then they said wont talk with me and not even see around again. Then i will try slove promblem with person. Then it over promblem then person said will sorry to me and i said it okay alright then good friend =)
Oh well, now i remember that, that time, we were young kids. That one girl student from Parkway Ele, name is Jennifer P. She trying make me angery because she know that, i was crush on one boy name is Luke Jones.. And She told luke about i was crush on him somehow, i saw that Jen kissed him make me grudges. Then next day, Jen make herself bully on me, and teast me, insult me lots... when we going to lunch and Jen told all students dont sit with Julisa. "She is werid." that explian, make me angery i trying to nice for sit with them but they dont want sit with me. then we went to outside then some how i did fight with that girl Jen, that why i got suspion..
Today I mad at uncle because he break my promise. Because he suppose to show up at my home for easter day dinner time. He not show up at my home and I give him for promise, he will come to my home; he not. My mom told me that he fight talk with uncle fred made not come to my home. So I feel little upset, little feel hurt, and mad. I call on VP and I told him I am very dippointed to him. He got realize. I always come to his house and he come for somtimes to my home. Now I will be fine..
Anyone doesnt want to make me angry cuz i am going to be temper real bad, so i am not doing anything when i get mad, cuz i get it knowing everyday because many people gets mad and mad more often for stupid reasons, so they arent make me angry, they are just friendly with me and stuff so i dont care what they want to do if they are mad at all. and ive been always in good mood and always will be. so angry is not worth to me at all .... when they are trying to make me mad, i am just tell them to blow it off and laugh my a off. that is all what i will do.
I have held grudge against my best friend. When we were kids, we were good friend. He was good kid who alway love to playing. Now, I'm looking at him who is making his life miskate. He will going to Junvelle Dentention. He have drug problem who hang out with bad kids. He always give me hard time being a deaf. Actually, I alway start to fight with him. We start to having problem that often. Only solve is stay away from him. Bless his life.
Sorry I not even know Grudge mean? But I read all blog and that mean piss off on other people. Oops. I use bad word. Sorry I mean angry. Really, I not angry on other people who have fun day as amusement park, go to other state. I have plenty time to do fun day as Gallaudet University, Hershey Park, Romeo and Juliet play, Flield Day, and Philadephia for competion and Florida with my cousin and cousin's mother. I not jealously person.
Some my friends do this to me before. i am not explain this. that is not your busness. And long story, too if i get problem and i will tell to teacher or my friends. Or i do it myself try to solve the problem.
Ah, that personal question...
Well, I rather not to say it in this blog, sorry.
So, I can use other concept. One day, I was frustrated with this thing. It made me angry and it made me damaged it. I was so angry that time, because it gave me hard time. It won’t cooperate with me. It just continues without me. It made me feel so crazy and frustrated. Everyday, I went to sleep and tried to think positive that it will be good in next day. But it never happens. Everyday, it won’t cooperate with me. Finally I give up and throw it away. Then I went to store and buy new computer. Finally, it work with me all way. It cooperated with me.
Good concept, eh? =^D
Good Night.
-AJR
its just hard explain
I dont have no comment about this
well, if someone have problem with me, i just ingore that person and walk away. its not a point to continue. Walk away is best thing to do. Dont have to dwell about it.
If i have problem with that person, i would tell it straight out and walk away.
well.. if you keep problem.. you will get big bad day! Just igrone person or walk away from person.
if person keep talk you.. just tell person.. please forgot this! if you keep problem you will bad everyday!
something hard to trust friends eack other you know what i mean. wow.. all world no one good peace! that my dream!
=( i hate two face! you know what i mean?
So, My point is just igrone person who keep problem with you.. or you can talk back solve problem!
In past, I alway hold grudges against someone, even my ex girlfriend during dating. Now I'm beginner to acting like Bearsboy. If I see any problem, I just back off and not fit in any drama. I want to be peace and if someone have grudge against me, then I just let someone go. I will just lalalalala.
Editing from my previous comment.
Does I have grudge inside me, well, I can not thought of one thing grudge I have. But IF someone have grudge against me. I would like to faced that person and solve problem. If still have grudge against me. I let it go and leave that person alone and don't bother with that person.
I am not that sensitive to have grudge against someone. I just let it go. It do not worth to keep grudge. Wasted your time.
*Stupid Word Verification, it takes me 15 minutes to made it right.*
-AJR
Hmm... Well, I holding grudge againist my mother because she adopt me for whar? I like my birth- mother. She say No, your birth- mother is bad person. I say Proof me. She proof me that she is good person than my birth mother. Now I act as Bearsboy in home because I realized that my mother love me and care about me. I love her more than my birth mother. I not mean to hurt my birth mother because she is more drugs, Lied, find another way to out of me. My mother told me that my birth mother dont care about me and my half sister told me that she saw she throw me and my mother say oh that true. I say Oh. Crap Why? She say that not important and important that I love u and care u. U always be my Baby Tiger. Now I not holding againist my mother. She is best mother that I ever had.
I have to take again on this. Thanks explain to me what grudges are. Last year I had a problem with my friends at other school. We are arguing for few weeks because we have a reason why we are a problem our private. Few weeks later I meet my friends again then we don’t to talk about that but we are sorry that what happened to our argue. Now no more those are a problem.
One time I was try to follow my friend ask me let break other people house and steal jelewy and I told him is not good idea and he tell me why? because he can get trouble and he said he was wrong and he will never be stupid like this is so stupid when he say that. i would never made mistake I made right choice that all i have to because i dont want to go to jail up 20 years.
Oh yes! I've have that many, many times. And trust me, it's a feeling of pains that isnt funny.
I got my laptop stolen by someone who I really know, someone I was literally close with. I had no idea that person stole it, but he had the guts to walk in the police station with me accusing other fellas stealing my laptop when he was the one who done it all the way. Also, my iPod got stolen - half of my life was taken away, I will definitely hold that grudge agasint that boyy for good.
Why should I solve problem with him when my laptop is given away for $200 and my iPod was sold for only $30?! Nah, he took my life away, he can wait til karma comes in his life ASAP (hopefully!)
WOW! this is a good question!--Yes I've holding the Grudges many times, Most of the time its about my friends, sometimes its about my family, for my friends, they don't realize that I'm friends with that person, and they go ahead say some things about me or hates my guts, and that friend tells me about it and i keep it in my mind about that person, sometimes I would blunt, sometimes that situation is stupid but I find it immature of that person to do but in a way I change my thoughts about that person, and sometimes I would treat them differently that usually but not serious, maybe stop chilling with them for a while, or just keep it cool, acting different that's what I do.
For family, I tend to hold it back, sometimes I can't blunt it to my family because they're senstive, but I notice when my family makes me hold my grudges I let it build and build until one day it'll explode there I go blow up and I tend to bring everything up the total timne that they build my grudge, sometimes they realize how much it made me hold back, how much it hurted, then they change, but most of the time i keep it back and move on, yes it does bother me but i just know i got to go with the flow!
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